Showing posts with label Down syndrome Florida. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Down syndrome Florida. Show all posts
Friday, March 20, 2015
DS Pins ~ 3.21.15 World Down syndrome Day!
I am a Special Education Advocate and Parent Trainer. A very proud parent to Mark and Mariah. Aunt Nana to many wonderful "Kiddo's" I hold close under my wing! Helping Parents Partner with Teachers. Helping with quality collaboration & communication so our Children with Unique Learning challenges are provided a Solid Education for their Future Success to Live Life Independently.
Friday, October 18, 2013
IEP Meeting Collaborating as a Team~DS Education & Awareness Day #18
In honor of Down syndrome "Education" & Awareness Month -today is Day 18- I Advocated for a sweet little 6 year old that needs her school to "do the right things" for her to progress academically during this school year.
I surprised the mom, telling her I would attend the IEP this morning with her. In honor of DS Awareness month, I wanted to Help Educate & Advocate for her little Sweetie-Pie. I wanted to help make sure everyone was on board with BELIEVING IN HER ABILITIES!!
I love my Lil Peeps with Down syndrome!!!
Happy Day 18 of Down syndrome month!
Update:
Meeting went well at this school! At first it was edgy....but felt more 'collaborative' as we went along...as it should be. It felt like we were all working as a team for this little funny-silly-always moving little girl. There didn't seem to be that 'rush' to push thru and get this meeting on-n-over with so quickly. Mom said she thought it was only going to be a meeting for just 30 minutes or maybe up to an hour. The meeting moved forward fairly smoothly as we all worked collaboratively for close to 4 HOURS together! Having good discussions updating and doing things a little differently than usual...because this was an IEP meeting that Mom had requested to have, to discuss concerns she has for her daughter's education.
This mommie reached out to me during an ESE Advisory Council Meeting asking "if and can they do" questions she was dealing with at her daughter's school. I met this little "punkin girl" and of course I saw all the wonderful things she was doing and how happy and active she was! ....WOW what a little talker she is too! I was VERY IMPRESSED with how well she talked to me and responded to all my questions I asked her!
Nothing better than reaching out to another parent of a daughter (or son) with Down syndrome too! Another parent that fully understands her very real concerns for her daughter's academic education. Mom was getting discouraged when she noticed her daughter's IEP goals and things written into her IEP document was never changing and always seemed to say the exact same thing year after year.
This was my first meeting attending with this mom and the grandmother at this school. I know they were very appreciative that I 'showed up' to help out!
BTW the front office at this school was decorated so amazing for the Month of October! Two scarecrows, lots of pumpkins, fall leaves, black cats, spiders and lots of orange twinkle lights! This made the school office FUN to come into and felt VERY warm and friendly and absolutely welcoming! This place gets high marks for atmosphere making you feel glad to be there. Made you SMILE when you walked into this school! The fall decorations were a perfect picture opportunity before we left the school. One couldn't resist wanting to take a few quick pictures in that school front office.
Happy Down syndrome Education & Awareness Month!
October 18th, 2013
I love my Lil Peeps with Down syndrome!!!
Happy Day 18 of Down syndrome month!
Update:
Meeting went well at this school! At first it was edgy....but felt more 'collaborative' as we went along...as it should be. It felt like we were all working as a team for this little funny-silly-always moving little girl. There didn't seem to be that 'rush' to push thru and get this meeting on-n-over with so quickly. Mom said she thought it was only going to be a meeting for just 30 minutes or maybe up to an hour. The meeting moved forward fairly smoothly as we all worked collaboratively for close to 4 HOURS together! Having good discussions updating and doing things a little differently than usual...because this was an IEP meeting that Mom had requested to have, to discuss concerns she has for her daughter's education.
This mommie reached out to me during an ESE Advisory Council Meeting asking "if and can they do" questions she was dealing with at her daughter's school. I met this little "punkin girl" and of course I saw all the wonderful things she was doing and how happy and active she was! ....WOW what a little talker she is too! I was VERY IMPRESSED with how well she talked to me and responded to all my questions I asked her!
Nothing better than reaching out to another parent of a daughter (or son) with Down syndrome too! Another parent that fully understands her very real concerns for her daughter's academic education. Mom was getting discouraged when she noticed her daughter's IEP goals and things written into her IEP document was never changing and always seemed to say the exact same thing year after year.
This was my first meeting attending with this mom and the grandmother at this school. I know they were very appreciative that I 'showed up' to help out!
BTW the front office at this school was decorated so amazing for the Month of October! Two scarecrows, lots of pumpkins, fall leaves, black cats, spiders and lots of orange twinkle lights! This made the school office FUN to come into and felt VERY warm and friendly and absolutely welcoming! This place gets high marks for atmosphere making you feel glad to be there. Made you SMILE when you walked into this school! The fall decorations were a perfect picture opportunity before we left the school. One couldn't resist wanting to take a few quick pictures in that school front office.
Happy Down syndrome Education & Awareness Month!
October 18th, 2013
*Should I say the name of the school?
Would the school be OK with it if I did?
*I have permission to post pictures of this sweetie lil punkin face!!
I am a Special Education Advocate and Parent Trainer. A very proud parent to Mark and Mariah. Aunt Nana to many wonderful "Kiddo's" I hold close under my wing! Helping Parents Partner with Teachers. Helping with quality collaboration & communication so our Children with Unique Learning challenges are provided a Solid Education for their Future Success to Live Life Independently.
Thursday, July 4, 2013
Mariah wasn't allowed to take the FCAT or the Alternate Assessment in the 6th Grade at Parkway Middle School!!
This is me speaking for the first time publically to Broward County School Board a month before I completely WITHDREW Mariah from Broward Public Education! In my speach you can see I was PLEADING for help to look into what was happening to me at Parkway Middle School via the IEP "PROCESS" here in Broward County! I also explain how Mariah wasn't even allowed to take the FCAT anymore and wasn't ever told by the schools ESE Specialist, Ms. Chiante Roundtree-Jones as to exactly when the ALTERNATE ASSESSMENT would be going on. (*the Special Needs FCAT testing) The schools ESE Specialist said, that Mariah wasn't in school on the day that the 'letter' was sent home. Instead weeks later, Mariah did bring home a letter informing us when the "regular" FCAT testing times would be going on.
In Elementary school, Mariah had always taken the "regular" FCAT since the 3rd grade and twice in 5th grade, because I thought it would be good for Mariah to have a second year of 5th grade with the same wonderful teacher, Mr. Allagood. Mariah had always been taking the "regular" FCAT, a total of 4 times she took the FCAT before going off to 6th grade at Parkway Middle School. So this year in 6th grade, Mariah wasn't even allowed or was I ever informed when the Alternate Assessment testing dates would be given. I found out later that the Alternate to the FCAT is given to the ESE Students over a 3 week time period, whereas the regular FCAT is given over a shorter time period of just 2 weeks. Not once during the time for testing the Alternate Assessment was our family notified of this testing and it was going on for 3 whole weeks?! That in itself shows the lack of care to test and/or educate a wonderful student like Mariah!
Mariah loves school and is a wonderful student any good teacher would be thrilled for the challenge of teaching her in a diversified classroom as they all should be today! Not all her teachers should have been chosen for her as there have been some really GREAT TEACHERS over the years and certainly Mariah has has some really lousy/rotten teachers too! More good teachers though, but the bad ones can really make life miserable for both student and parent! Her intensive reading teacher in 6th grade at Parkway Middle had no desire to really help Mariah continue with increasing her reading skills. An intensive reading teacher that only gives "F's" to a student with an IEP should be fired! Upsetting to say the least, because READING is one of the most important academic skills a student needs to learn to get an education! That reading teacher's only goal for Mariah was to show she wasn't making progress to push her into a NON-PHONICS BASED reading program the ESE Department was pushing on many of the Middle School Students, that I wanted no part of for my girl. This "curriculum" was not something I agreed to, if SB 1108 had been in place, I would have had to 'sign-off' yes or no to that curriculum. As of July 1st, 2013 that Senate Bill will be law!
So this year, not only did my daugher, Mariah not get to take the "regular" FCAT, she also wasn't allowed to be tested the one given to Special Needs students, the Alternate Assessment to the regular FCAT. Why was this allowed to even happen to Mariah? Is it because both Mariah and I went up to testify before the Florida Senate in March on SB 1108? Is it because she has Down syndrome, is it because her mom is an outspoken Advocate for students with Down syndrome and other unique learning challenges? I would like to know how our public school district can get away with such nonsense!
Ultimately....one month later I decided to completely WITHDRAW my daughter from PUBLIC EDUCATION because I have experienced such a total lack of care to ACADEMICALLY EDUCATE my daughter as she gets older. Being in Middle School and being included in regular general education classes is NOT WHAT THIS DISTRICT WANTS FOR STUDENTS WITH DOWN SYNDROME and certainly they don't care to work collaboratively with their parents.
The new Senate Bill 1108 if it had been in place before this school year or before, I never would have had to go through the nonsense I was being forced to endure at the many (too many) IEP meetings Parkway Middle School put me through.
Mariah and I going to the Florida Capitol a month previously on March 18th, 2013 to testify before the Florida Senate on why we thought this Bill is an absolute must to have in place to protect parents rights to help our children receive a "world class education"? That is what is advertised throughout our public school district, on their phone lines when we are put on hold and on the District website. A world class education is for those without disabilities I think is what they really mean.
In this video, Mariah had just spoken before me, the same exact speech she read to the Florida Senate Education Committee a month before on March 18th, 2013. I will post her first school board speech when I have a copy of it. This was Mariah's second time public speaking and she did fabulous job! She has told me she loves speaking in front of a people! So through it all, we both have become Public Speakers. Mariah and I both have now had parts of our Senate Education Committee testimony from the the Florida Capitol speech aired on National Public Radion-NPR. Mariah telling the Florida Senate that she wants a REAL HIGH SCHOOL DIPLOMA and that she wants to one day go to College. Her cute voice and her very first public speech has been aired and heard across the Country. I believe she speaks for many with Down syndrome and special needs education in general.
Mariah you are on your way to becoming a National Speaker, getting on NPR is a start! I am so proud of my daughter for rising to the challenge of getting up and speaking before the public and having your voice heard! You speak for many like you!
Please comment if things like this are or have been happening to your child's education, I would love to hear from my readers. Share my story too!
I am a Special Education Advocate and Parent Trainer. A very proud parent to Mark and Mariah. Aunt Nana to many wonderful "Kiddo's" I hold close under my wing! Helping Parents Partner with Teachers. Helping with quality collaboration & communication so our Children with Unique Learning challenges are provided a Solid Education for their Future Success to Live Life Independently.
Saturday, May 25, 2013
My DUE PROCESS Final Orders listed on the FDOE website 12-3961E December 2012
My DUE PROCESS Final Orders online!
http://www.fldoe.org/core/fileparse.php/7675/urlt/0069820-12-3961.pdf
Want to read about a few DUE PROCESS Final Orders received in Florida?
January - June 2013 on the FDOE website.
Case Number District Order Date
12-3961E (PDF, 234KB) Broward February 28, 2013
12-3961E is my DUE PROCESS Final Orders, that are now PUBLIC! I will be posting the TRANSCRIPTS too!
To read other DUE PROCESS Final Orders between Jan.-June 2013 in Florida click this link:
http://www.fldoe.org/academics/exceptional-student-edu/dispute-resolution/due-process-hearing-orders/2013.stml
This is the OLD DEAD LINK that was listed on the FDOE website that is now a dead link. I think the FDOE does this every so often to create dead links to documents. http://www.fldoe.org/ese/due-order.asp
In order to fully understand what all the original issues and concerns were and my reason for filing such a long laundry list of IEP/ESE concerns and ultimately led to my filing for a due process in the first place, you may want to read my original email sent to Broward County School Superintendent Robert Runcie in my previous blog post.
It has been an absolute nightmare navigating the IEP "Process" as it is now operating in Broward Public School District today!
Parents have had NO VOICE OR SAY-SO in the educational decisions being made for our Children at these often times, contentious and confrontational IEP meetings for our Children.
SB 1108 will create some good changes for parents at the IEP tables in Florida.
http://www.fldoe.org/core/fileparse.php/7675/urlt/0069820-12-3961.pdf
Want to read about a few DUE PROCESS Final Orders received in Florida?
January - June 2013 on the FDOE website.
Case Number District Order Date
12-3961E (PDF, 234KB) Broward February 28, 2013
12-3961E is my DUE PROCESS Final Orders, that are now PUBLIC! I will be posting the TRANSCRIPTS too!
To read other DUE PROCESS Final Orders between Jan.-June 2013 in Florida click this link:
http://www.fldoe.org/academics/exceptional-student-edu/dispute-resolution/due-process-hearing-orders/2013.stml
This is the OLD DEAD LINK that was listed on the FDOE website that is now a dead link. I think the FDOE does this every so often to create dead links to documents. http://www.fldoe.org/ese/due-order.asp
In order to fully understand what all the original issues and concerns were and my reason for filing such a long laundry list of IEP/ESE concerns and ultimately led to my filing for a due process in the first place, you may want to read my original email sent to Broward County School Superintendent Robert Runcie in my previous blog post.
It has been an absolute nightmare navigating the IEP "Process" as it is now operating in Broward Public School District today!
Parents have had NO VOICE OR SAY-SO in the educational decisions being made for our Children at these often times, contentious and confrontational IEP meetings for our Children.
SB 1108 will create some good changes for parents at the IEP tables in Florida.
I am a Special Education Advocate and Parent Trainer. A very proud parent to Mark and Mariah. Aunt Nana to many wonderful "Kiddo's" I hold close under my wing! Helping Parents Partner with Teachers. Helping with quality collaboration & communication so our Children with Unique Learning challenges are provided a Solid Education for their Future Success to Live Life Independently.
Friday, October 19, 2012
JUST LIKE YOU ~ Cool Short Video
THANK YOU Down Syndrome Guild of Greater Kansas City!!
This is a PERFECTLY BEAUTIFUL short video especially for October being Down syndrome Awareness Month!!
I am a Special Education Advocate and Parent Trainer. A very proud parent to Mark and Mariah. Aunt Nana to many wonderful "Kiddo's" I hold close under my wing! Helping Parents Partner with Teachers. Helping with quality collaboration & communication so our Children with Unique Learning challenges are provided a Solid Education for their Future Success to Live Life Independently.
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
NGSSS ~ New Generation Sunshine State Standards
NGSSS ~ New Generation Sunshine State Standards
This is for Florida folks ~ Get to know this website ~ click the above link to read more.
This is for Florida folks ~ Get to know this website ~ click the above link to read more.
I am a Special Education Advocate and Parent Trainer. A very proud parent to Mark and Mariah. Aunt Nana to many wonderful "Kiddo's" I hold close under my wing! Helping Parents Partner with Teachers. Helping with quality collaboration & communication so our Children with Unique Learning challenges are provided a Solid Education for their Future Success to Live Life Independently.
Thursday, December 15, 2011
SPELLING CITY .com ~ Unscramble the Sentence Vocabulary Game
OMG!!
This is so awesome for helping with learning
how to put sentences together!
how to put sentences together!
Mariah and I ~ BOTH LOVE "playing" this one!
http://www.spellingcity.com/unscramble-the-sentence-vocabulary-game.html?listId=6396929#.Tul8ahyA_Ws.facebook
Click above link to:
~ "JUST TRY IT!" ~
Sign up for a yearly membership to Spelling City.com
~ This is simply theee BEST and AFFORDABLE! ~
SpellingCity.com is really helping so many learn to:
Read ~ Write & Spell!
EASY & FUN all while learning!
LIFE SKILLS = Spelling ~ READING ~ Writing
I am a Special Education Advocate and Parent Trainer. A very proud parent to Mark and Mariah. Aunt Nana to many wonderful "Kiddo's" I hold close under my wing! Helping Parents Partner with Teachers. Helping with quality collaboration & communication so our Children with Unique Learning challenges are provided a Solid Education for their Future Success to Live Life Independently.
Friday, July 1, 2011
Not all teachers are good teachers......for OUR children!
I was excited for the new school year to begin! My daughter was going into the 5th grade, marking the end of attending Elementary school. How could she be going into the 5th grade when it was just the other day I was nervous about who her Kindergarten teacher would be!
Since this is my newest blog-baby and the reason I wanted to start this blog about INCLUSION, is because this particular school year was over the top in alot of ways. Things that happened this year are what has motivated me to want to share all in one place all the things that worked or didn't work for both Mariah and I. Mariah has always been FULLY INCLUDED in GENERAL EDUCATION CLASSROOMS with the only time she leaves her classroom is when she goes to visit the School Speech Therapist, Mrs. Newman. She has been working with Mariah since she started in the PLACE classroom at 4 years old. Mariah and I both love Mrs. Newman, she makes learning Speech & Language FUN...she gets to play all sorts of GAMES and use pictures when she works 'her craft'. Mariah likes her ST time at school, its FUN!
I have many stories and classroom 'situations' at every grade level she has been in that I could write about. I want to continue to write and share a little about each grade and the different teachers she has had over the years. How each teacher has helped, or not helped in Mariah being fully included and accepted by her classmates over the years.
At our school we have been doing what is called, Departmentalizing. This means our 3rd, 4th and 5th graders would be having 2-3 different teachers and changing classes just like in Middle School. It also means that the teachers are supposed to be teaching to what they are certified in. If a teacher has a Certification in Reading, than that teacher would be the Reading teacher. At first I was uncertain about my girl changing classes, but it really wasn't that big of a deal, the classes were next door or across the hall and she would be moving from class to class with all her classmates and she also had her Para that assisted her for safety concerns.
Mariah was assigned a wonderful Science teacher, Mr. Allagood and Miss Ridhur was her new homeroom teacher. I had been told she was a good teacher. Miss Ridhur the homeroom teacher would be Mariah's Reading, Language Arts and Math teacher. They had a third teacher, Ms. Borrows, she would be teaching Social Studies and also was going to be like a double-dose Reading & Math teacher. My daughter has always had her own Unique Aide or some schools call them Paraprofessionals, to provide individual support and assist her since going into Kindergarten. This year she was assigned a new Unique Aide, her name is Miss Rollings.
Mariah's IEP has always had the support of being able to have daily home notes to provide me with a snap-shot of her school day. Since Mariah's language skills are delayed, she isn't always able to share with me what she did at school each day. Our school has always provided a Daily Planner for every student, starting in the First Grade. I requested and advocated to make sure we had one for my girl when she started back in Kindergarten. So for years teachers and her assigned Para have always provided me good daily communication via the Daily Planner that would come home every day. I was able to provide communication back to the school thru that school planner as well. A spiral notebook would work fine too.
The school year started off great! I was excited for Mariah to be in the 5th grade and anxious for all the 5th grade academics I knew she was going to have to work extra hard this year in order to do well in the 5th Grade. She had a good group of homeroom classmates in the same class with her. There was Osman who over the years has always had a special connection with watching out for and helping Mariah. Just mention Osman's name and Mariah's face lights up! So Mariah was very happy to be back in school and in the 5th grade with all her school friends.
I wanted to make sure I signed up early for a Parent-Teacher Conference so I could get to know her new teacher and be able to discuss with her my expectations for this new school year ahead. My daughters Unique Aide or Paraprofessional was the one that usually wrote in Mariah's Planner to let me know what her homework was or anything that needed to be communicated back home. I would write little notes back to the school using this planner.
What I noticed just after a few weeks of the new school year, was that Mariah's new 5th grade teacher, Miss Ridhur wouldn't really communicate to me when I would ask her something in the planner or even when I emailed her. Mariah seemed to be going along with the demands of being a new 5th grader and was happy to be back in school again with 'her friends'. On the other hand, I was starting to feel like her teacher was avoiding having any conversations with me and wasn't providing me with much feedback and was unwilling to write any daily notes to let me know how things were going in class. I mean after all, I am the parent of the little girl in her classroom that has a significant intellectual disability...she does have student in her class now with Down syndrome. I would think a GOOD TEACHER would want to have at least one substantial conversation with that particular student's parent(s).
It seemed that no matter what small note I wrote in the Daily Planner or what I emailed to her, she wasn't responding or giving me any real feedback. Then when I started seeing Mariah's Math classwork coming home and it was all but the most basic of basic Preschool worksheets, I knew this new teacher didn't have a clue how to TEACH my daughter and that she had her own ideas on what and how she was going to teach her this year!! So began....what I will call: The 5th Grade MATH CLASSWORK WAR! Mariah of course had her Math IEP Goals that were to be worked on regularly, with any one of her three teachers, but mostly her IEP goals were going to be worked on by the 'double-dose' Social Studies teacher, Ms. Borrows. But her homeroom teacher, Miss Ridhur was her Math teacher and she wasn't having Mariah do any 5th grade Math work. Not even the most simple of beginning 5th grade Math classwork! Mariah wasn't very good at Math but she also didn't have to do ALL the 5th Grade Math classwork, but I expected her to be exposed to and participate in some of the 5th Grade classwork and to be able to do a few of the problems with the assistance of her Aide! Listed on Mariah's IEP she gets reduced assignments and extra time.
I had a meeting the week before school started with her entire team of new teachers and some staff and let all of them know of what my expectations of Mariah's INCLUSIVE 5th Grade year to look like and to let it be known that I also wanted Mariah to be able to be provided "a piece of" or "a small portion of" what everybody else was being taught and was learning...and that meant her 5th Grade Math classwork problems!! She needed to do SOME OF her 5th Grade Math CLASSWORK ~ IN CLASS and let her homework be the Math FLUENCY SKILLS work she still needed much help and assistance on. Mariah was still learning basic addition and was struggling with subtraction, let alone had never been taught her multiplication table yet! So now this year she was supposed to know how to dive into doing DIVISION problems and with some pretty big numbers and then there were the WORD PROBLEMS to work on! Without being able to have any regular communication with her Homeroom teacher, Miss Ridhur, it was of course creating a stressful time for sure! She was clearly showing me that she was NOT going to have Mariah do ANY 5th Grade CLASSWORK at school...ever! That she wanted her to do it only for homework with her mommy helping her!
What I saw coming home in my daughters backpack everyday was NOT what I had in mind for a good 5th grade school year!! I needed to have our Parent-Teacher Conference...and FAST! I had signed up for a meeting date during the Open House because all teachers 'free time' and conference appointments get taken up very quickly, so that's why I signed up during Open House time, I wanted to make sure we met sooner than later. When she CANCELLED our first set appointment, I was cool about it...but when she then wouldn't return any of my phone messages or any of my emails and wouldn't write in the Daily Planner and work with me even a tiny bit...the problem was growing harder and harder for me to take! There was not an ounce of COLLABORATION happening between this teacher and me. I had never had a teacher that totally shut me out and wouldn't MEET WITH ME for a Parent-Teacher Conference and kept canceling our dates. This teacher was showing me she was a BAD TEACHER...for MY GIRL!!
My emails became my only way of DOCUMENTING her non-communication and her unwillingness to collaborate with me even a little bit. Not only was I dealing with her homeroom teacher not wanting to talk to me, but her new Paraprofessional/Unique Aide, Miss Rollings wasn't being very cooperative either! I knew she wasn't a very friendly person from seeing her around campus all the years, but she certainly wasn't providing me with MUCH to go by in the Daily Planner either. She would never even have a simple conversation with me if she and I saw each other on campus and she only did the very bare minimum in providing me what my daughter did at school in the Daily Planner. I don't know why people have to be so cold sometimes when it comes to just wanting to know what is going on with our kiddo's while under their care at school, especially when our children have severe language communication and speech delays. Did she NOT want to be my daughter's Para/Unique Aide, did she NOT like my daughter or think she shouldn't be INCLUDED in the Gen. Ed 5th Grade classrooms? I don't know why my daughter had to have a Para/Unique Aide that has a cold shoulder towards me, maybe she's like that with everyone or maybe she doesn't like her particular job anymore. All I know is I HAVE TO TRUST HER...and trust that she is taking good care of my girl and that she is really there to help support and assist Mariah to do well in school, by redirecting her because Mariah gets easily distracted very quickly.
My excitement for my daughter’s school year was becoming a major stressor to me and my whole family now! With her new Aide not being all that friendly to me or ever talking to me, it made me concerned for how she may treat my daughter at school. When people can't or don't or won't make EYE CONTACT with me...it absolutely raises a red flag for me! I am naturally a skeptical person and I don't immediately trust anyone, especially those that can't look at me! Am I now supposed to trust my daughter’s new homeroom teacher and her new Aide when they both can’t even talk and/or look at me? Something wasn't right and something certainly needed to change...and quick!
My daughter needs people to believe in her abilities, not to just see her Down syndrome or to only see her as someone with a disability. Mariah needs FUN, HaPpY people around her that want to help her and enjoy being with Mariah! Those that work with Mariah absolutely need to be able to communicate and collaboratively work with her mom too!
After 6 weeks of much stress over what was turning into a very bad 5th Grade school year with Miss Ridhur and Miss Rollings. As each day passed it was very clear that I wasn't going to have my Parent-Teacher Conference anytime soon either too, (I signed up during the Open House!) so I finally requested to have a CLASSROOM OBSERVATION! Yup, don't know why I didn't do it sooner! After sending many emails and sending them to everybody that was part of Mariah's Educational Team, Miss Ridhur was NEVER going change to have a Collaborative and good working Parent-Teacher relationship with me. I now needed to see how she did things in her classroom!
The day had been set for me to come and observe Miss Ridhur's classroom. She knew the day I was coming and I'm sure she was anxious to have me be there IN HER CLASSROOM! Of course she was nervous, she had been doing her best at avoiding communicating with me for the past 6-7 weeks now, so here I was actually sitting in the corner of her classroom!
Ok so I walk in, I find an empty chair and sat down away from the students over in the corner next to the adjoining door to Mr. Allagood's classroom. I see where my daughter is and I made sure I wasn't near her or any of the students. I came in at the Reading class time and the entire class is taking a Reading test. The classroom was very very quiet because they were all testing. No big deal...but I thought it was a little strange that on a day she agreed to have me come and observe her Math class she is now testing all the students in a Reading or Language Arts TEST! My daughter on the other hand, was NOT taking that same READING TEST, instead was working on her own 'fluency' MATH worksheets! During the 45 MINUTES of her testing the entire class, every so often Miss Ridhur would come over to where Mariah was sitting and whisper to Ms. Rollings what she then wanted Mariah to work on. Mariah was then instructed to start working on something else by Miss Rollings. Mariah started turning her whole body around in her chair so she could read and write all the Spelling Words off the board and then turn back around in her chair again. The spelling list of words on the wall was not all that close to where she was sitting, this is why she kept turning around in her seat. *Mariah has included in her IEP ~ Close Proximity and Preferential Seating. Those Special Ed SUPPORTS & SERVICES on her IEP are on there for a reason!!
Mariah clearly was NOT doing anything that had to do with her being FULLY INCLUDED in the 5th grade GENERAL EDUCATION CLASSROOM with this teacher!
Mariah had recently turned in the required monthly project; a Social Studies poster that took a small team of helpers to help her complete. It was beautiful when it was completed and turned in. I saw all the other students beautiful posters, some were on the bulletin board out in the hallway, the others were in various locations within the classroom. I looked everywhere for her poster, but couldn't find it anywhere in her classroom. Then I saw that Mariah's poster was COVERED UP and BEHIND another students poster! It was peeking out with only a few 3-4 inches of her beautiful work showing!!!! The amount of work and with all of us that helped Mariah every step of the way work on it and complete her poster and it took several 'homework' sessions to finish it. It was very disappointing to see that this teacher wouldn't even display it like all the other student's posters had been. Seems this teacher really didn’t care that Mariah's HARD WORK needed to be displayed or seen by anyone, especially Mariah! Mariah worked hard on her West Virginia poster and she was PROUD of it and wanted everyone to SEE IT! This teacher didn't give Mariah any respect that she deserved for turning her monthly project in ON TIME and with following all the rules of the monthly project. Why?? Seeing that Mariah's poster was 'hidden' behind another students poster...none of the others were 'hidden' behind any...just Mariah's was. Being IN this teachers classroom was my time as a parent to see my daughter's class and to see HER POSTER displayed like all of them had been....absolutely upsetting! I can only imagine how it made my daughter FEEL! Thanks!
Where I was sitting in the back corner of the classroom, I was able to also see lots of other things in her classroom that maybe Miss Ridhur didn't realize that I was there to OBSERVE HER & HER CLASSROOM! When I couldn't find her monthly project poster displayed within the classroom anywhere, I started looking around the room for all sorts of other things and what I found was a list of all the students’ progress with reading their AR books. Accelerated Reader books that each student read they would get a sticker for every book they read. Looking at this list, I am reading all the students names, I read the list two or three times looking for Mariah's name. Mariah's name was nowhere to be found and absolutely was NOT on the classroom AR LIST!!
I was so sad and upset and my heart was broken because all along I thought I was doing right by my daughter by having her be FULLY INCLUDED in all GENERAL EDUCATION CLASSROOMS and yet, here I am seeing with my own eyes right here in her 5th grade homeroom classroom that she is actually being EXCLUDED and SEGREGATED within her General Education classroom because why?...because she has Down syndrome! Mariah had a teacher that didn't care!
As soon as my ONE HOUR CLASSROOM OBSERVATION was up...that was the only time Miss Ridhur looked up and at me and made any eye contact with me! She even spoke to me, saying, "Mrs. Harris, your observation time is up!" I smiled at her and I said, "Thank you" as I left her classroom.
The Principal had been near-by and on-hand during the entire hour observation, going between Miss Ridhur's classroom and the Science teacher, Mr. Allagood's classroom next door. He escorted me out of the class and down the stairs. It was in that stairwell that I let my favorite principal, Mr. Cashew know that I was not happy with that teacher and that it was very obvious she didn't have a clue about INCLUSION and that I didn't want my daughter to spend another day in her classroom and that Mariah needed to be in the Science teacher, Mr. Allagood's class starting Monday!
I will never forget the Parent-Teacher Conference I was finally able to have with Miss Ridhur and Mariah's other two teachers the very next day and how disgusted I was at her total lack or desire to be a GOOD TEACHER for my daughter! I was fed up with trying to make things work out with this teacher when it was very clear she had no desire to have a COLLABORATIVE & working partnership with me. My daughter was being treated LESS THAN, my daughter wasn't being praised to success. Mariah didn't get to have her homework displayed in the classroom like the other posters. Mariah wasn't being provided an opportunity to read and be tested on ACCELERATED READER BOOKS from the school library. Mariah wasn't being provided any opportunity to do grade level Math classwork while in class! Mariah was being EXCLUDED and it broke my heart to finally have answers to all the reasons why her new 5th Grade teacher wouldn't COMMUNICATE in the daily planner or respond to any of my emails or return my phone calls. This teacher was NOT A GOOD TEACHER.....for MY GIRL!!!!!
Inclusion so far was not happening in 5th Grade for Mariah!!! Miss Ridhur didn't know, maybe didn't have any training on inclusion, maybe she didn't 'volunteer' to have Mariah in her class, she had low expectations of her and she certainly didn't BELEIVE IN HER! She didn't care! Mariah IS a bright girl that can learn lots of wonderful things, but a teacher HAS TO CARE and a teacher has to have HIGH EXPECTATIONS for all students, not just the smart ones, but especially the students that struggle with their academics. Mariah will always struggle with her academics; she is going to learn what she needs to learn to be successful in life. If she has a teacher that BELIEVES in her and sees her POTENTIAL, then yes she will do well, of course any student would!
Mariah and I both had a very disappointing start to her 5th Grade school year. At the beginning of the new school year we were both excited and looking forward to having a great academic year. Now with putting in for a TEACHER CHANGE to start immediately on Monday with Mr. Allagood things have to be better! They just have to be, Mariah DESERVES a GOOD TEACHER that BELIEVES in her and will provide her with the right peer role models to sit next to her and work and assist her with Grade Level Classwork. More than anything Mariah and her mom deserve a GOOD TEACHER that is willing to return at least one phone call and TALK, COMMUNICATE & COLLABORATE....and yes...MAKE EYE CONTACT even! A GOOD TEACHER WOULD DO ALL THAT...
Putting in a REQUEST FOR A TEACHER CHANGE was the best thing that happened for Mariah's 5th Grade school year!
"Don't worry Mr. Allagood; you're going to do just fine!!"
*He was a tad nervous I'm sure!
**This is a true story ~ some teacher names have been changed and some names are Mariah's real teacher names.
Since this is my newest blog-baby and the reason I wanted to start this blog about INCLUSION, is because this particular school year was over the top in alot of ways. Things that happened this year are what has motivated me to want to share all in one place all the things that worked or didn't work for both Mariah and I. Mariah has always been FULLY INCLUDED in GENERAL EDUCATION CLASSROOMS with the only time she leaves her classroom is when she goes to visit the School Speech Therapist, Mrs. Newman. She has been working with Mariah since she started in the PLACE classroom at 4 years old. Mariah and I both love Mrs. Newman, she makes learning Speech & Language FUN...she gets to play all sorts of GAMES and use pictures when she works 'her craft'. Mariah likes her ST time at school, its FUN!
I have many stories and classroom 'situations' at every grade level she has been in that I could write about. I want to continue to write and share a little about each grade and the different teachers she has had over the years. How each teacher has helped, or not helped in Mariah being fully included and accepted by her classmates over the years.
At our school we have been doing what is called, Departmentalizing. This means our 3rd, 4th and 5th graders would be having 2-3 different teachers and changing classes just like in Middle School. It also means that the teachers are supposed to be teaching to what they are certified in. If a teacher has a Certification in Reading, than that teacher would be the Reading teacher. At first I was uncertain about my girl changing classes, but it really wasn't that big of a deal, the classes were next door or across the hall and she would be moving from class to class with all her classmates and she also had her Para that assisted her for safety concerns.
Mariah was assigned a wonderful Science teacher, Mr. Allagood and Miss Ridhur was her new homeroom teacher. I had been told she was a good teacher. Miss Ridhur the homeroom teacher would be Mariah's Reading, Language Arts and Math teacher. They had a third teacher, Ms. Borrows, she would be teaching Social Studies and also was going to be like a double-dose Reading & Math teacher. My daughter has always had her own Unique Aide or some schools call them Paraprofessionals, to provide individual support and assist her since going into Kindergarten. This year she was assigned a new Unique Aide, her name is Miss Rollings.
Mariah's IEP has always had the support of being able to have daily home notes to provide me with a snap-shot of her school day. Since Mariah's language skills are delayed, she isn't always able to share with me what she did at school each day. Our school has always provided a Daily Planner for every student, starting in the First Grade. I requested and advocated to make sure we had one for my girl when she started back in Kindergarten. So for years teachers and her assigned Para have always provided me good daily communication via the Daily Planner that would come home every day. I was able to provide communication back to the school thru that school planner as well. A spiral notebook would work fine too.
The school year started off great! I was excited for Mariah to be in the 5th grade and anxious for all the 5th grade academics I knew she was going to have to work extra hard this year in order to do well in the 5th Grade. She had a good group of homeroom classmates in the same class with her. There was Osman who over the years has always had a special connection with watching out for and helping Mariah. Just mention Osman's name and Mariah's face lights up! So Mariah was very happy to be back in school and in the 5th grade with all her school friends.
I wanted to make sure I signed up early for a Parent-Teacher Conference so I could get to know her new teacher and be able to discuss with her my expectations for this new school year ahead. My daughters Unique Aide or Paraprofessional was the one that usually wrote in Mariah's Planner to let me know what her homework was or anything that needed to be communicated back home. I would write little notes back to the school using this planner.
What I noticed just after a few weeks of the new school year, was that Mariah's new 5th grade teacher, Miss Ridhur wouldn't really communicate to me when I would ask her something in the planner or even when I emailed her. Mariah seemed to be going along with the demands of being a new 5th grader and was happy to be back in school again with 'her friends'. On the other hand, I was starting to feel like her teacher was avoiding having any conversations with me and wasn't providing me with much feedback and was unwilling to write any daily notes to let me know how things were going in class. I mean after all, I am the parent of the little girl in her classroom that has a significant intellectual disability...she does have student in her class now with Down syndrome. I would think a GOOD TEACHER would want to have at least one substantial conversation with that particular student's parent(s).
It seemed that no matter what small note I wrote in the Daily Planner or what I emailed to her, she wasn't responding or giving me any real feedback. Then when I started seeing Mariah's Math classwork coming home and it was all but the most basic of basic Preschool worksheets, I knew this new teacher didn't have a clue how to TEACH my daughter and that she had her own ideas on what and how she was going to teach her this year!! So began....what I will call: The 5th Grade MATH CLASSWORK WAR! Mariah of course had her Math IEP Goals that were to be worked on regularly, with any one of her three teachers, but mostly her IEP goals were going to be worked on by the 'double-dose' Social Studies teacher, Ms. Borrows. But her homeroom teacher, Miss Ridhur was her Math teacher and she wasn't having Mariah do any 5th grade Math work. Not even the most simple of beginning 5th grade Math classwork! Mariah wasn't very good at Math but she also didn't have to do ALL the 5th Grade Math classwork, but I expected her to be exposed to and participate in some of the 5th Grade classwork and to be able to do a few of the problems with the assistance of her Aide! Listed on Mariah's IEP she gets reduced assignments and extra time.
I had a meeting the week before school started with her entire team of new teachers and some staff and let all of them know of what my expectations of Mariah's INCLUSIVE 5th Grade year to look like and to let it be known that I also wanted Mariah to be able to be provided "a piece of" or "a small portion of" what everybody else was being taught and was learning...and that meant her 5th Grade Math classwork problems!! She needed to do SOME OF her 5th Grade Math CLASSWORK ~ IN CLASS and let her homework be the Math FLUENCY SKILLS work she still needed much help and assistance on. Mariah was still learning basic addition and was struggling with subtraction, let alone had never been taught her multiplication table yet! So now this year she was supposed to know how to dive into doing DIVISION problems and with some pretty big numbers and then there were the WORD PROBLEMS to work on! Without being able to have any regular communication with her Homeroom teacher, Miss Ridhur, it was of course creating a stressful time for sure! She was clearly showing me that she was NOT going to have Mariah do ANY 5th Grade CLASSWORK at school...ever! That she wanted her to do it only for homework with her mommy helping her!
What I saw coming home in my daughters backpack everyday was NOT what I had in mind for a good 5th grade school year!! I needed to have our Parent-Teacher Conference...and FAST! I had signed up for a meeting date during the Open House because all teachers 'free time' and conference appointments get taken up very quickly, so that's why I signed up during Open House time, I wanted to make sure we met sooner than later. When she CANCELLED our first set appointment, I was cool about it...but when she then wouldn't return any of my phone messages or any of my emails and wouldn't write in the Daily Planner and work with me even a tiny bit...the problem was growing harder and harder for me to take! There was not an ounce of COLLABORATION happening between this teacher and me. I had never had a teacher that totally shut me out and wouldn't MEET WITH ME for a Parent-Teacher Conference and kept canceling our dates. This teacher was showing me she was a BAD TEACHER...for MY GIRL!!
My emails became my only way of DOCUMENTING her non-communication and her unwillingness to collaborate with me even a little bit. Not only was I dealing with her homeroom teacher not wanting to talk to me, but her new Paraprofessional/Unique Aide, Miss Rollings wasn't being very cooperative either! I knew she wasn't a very friendly person from seeing her around campus all the years, but she certainly wasn't providing me with MUCH to go by in the Daily Planner either. She would never even have a simple conversation with me if she and I saw each other on campus and she only did the very bare minimum in providing me what my daughter did at school in the Daily Planner. I don't know why people have to be so cold sometimes when it comes to just wanting to know what is going on with our kiddo's while under their care at school, especially when our children have severe language communication and speech delays. Did she NOT want to be my daughter's Para/Unique Aide, did she NOT like my daughter or think she shouldn't be INCLUDED in the Gen. Ed 5th Grade classrooms? I don't know why my daughter had to have a Para/Unique Aide that has a cold shoulder towards me, maybe she's like that with everyone or maybe she doesn't like her particular job anymore. All I know is I HAVE TO TRUST HER...and trust that she is taking good care of my girl and that she is really there to help support and assist Mariah to do well in school, by redirecting her because Mariah gets easily distracted very quickly.
My excitement for my daughter’s school year was becoming a major stressor to me and my whole family now! With her new Aide not being all that friendly to me or ever talking to me, it made me concerned for how she may treat my daughter at school. When people can't or don't or won't make EYE CONTACT with me...it absolutely raises a red flag for me! I am naturally a skeptical person and I don't immediately trust anyone, especially those that can't look at me! Am I now supposed to trust my daughter’s new homeroom teacher and her new Aide when they both can’t even talk and/or look at me? Something wasn't right and something certainly needed to change...and quick!
My daughter needs people to believe in her abilities, not to just see her Down syndrome or to only see her as someone with a disability. Mariah needs FUN, HaPpY people around her that want to help her and enjoy being with Mariah! Those that work with Mariah absolutely need to be able to communicate and collaboratively work with her mom too!
After 6 weeks of much stress over what was turning into a very bad 5th Grade school year with Miss Ridhur and Miss Rollings. As each day passed it was very clear that I wasn't going to have my Parent-Teacher Conference anytime soon either too, (I signed up during the Open House!) so I finally requested to have a CLASSROOM OBSERVATION! Yup, don't know why I didn't do it sooner! After sending many emails and sending them to everybody that was part of Mariah's Educational Team, Miss Ridhur was NEVER going change to have a Collaborative and good working Parent-Teacher relationship with me. I now needed to see how she did things in her classroom!
The day had been set for me to come and observe Miss Ridhur's classroom. She knew the day I was coming and I'm sure she was anxious to have me be there IN HER CLASSROOM! Of course she was nervous, she had been doing her best at avoiding communicating with me for the past 6-7 weeks now, so here I was actually sitting in the corner of her classroom!
Ok so I walk in, I find an empty chair and sat down away from the students over in the corner next to the adjoining door to Mr. Allagood's classroom. I see where my daughter is and I made sure I wasn't near her or any of the students. I came in at the Reading class time and the entire class is taking a Reading test. The classroom was very very quiet because they were all testing. No big deal...but I thought it was a little strange that on a day she agreed to have me come and observe her Math class she is now testing all the students in a Reading or Language Arts TEST! My daughter on the other hand, was NOT taking that same READING TEST, instead was working on her own 'fluency' MATH worksheets! During the 45 MINUTES of her testing the entire class, every so often Miss Ridhur would come over to where Mariah was sitting and whisper to Ms. Rollings what she then wanted Mariah to work on. Mariah was then instructed to start working on something else by Miss Rollings. Mariah started turning her whole body around in her chair so she could read and write all the Spelling Words off the board and then turn back around in her chair again. The spelling list of words on the wall was not all that close to where she was sitting, this is why she kept turning around in her seat. *Mariah has included in her IEP ~ Close Proximity and Preferential Seating. Those Special Ed SUPPORTS & SERVICES on her IEP are on there for a reason!!
Mariah clearly was NOT doing anything that had to do with her being FULLY INCLUDED in the 5th grade GENERAL EDUCATION CLASSROOM with this teacher!
Mariah had recently turned in the required monthly project; a Social Studies poster that took a small team of helpers to help her complete. It was beautiful when it was completed and turned in. I saw all the other students beautiful posters, some were on the bulletin board out in the hallway, the others were in various locations within the classroom. I looked everywhere for her poster, but couldn't find it anywhere in her classroom. Then I saw that Mariah's poster was COVERED UP and BEHIND another students poster! It was peeking out with only a few 3-4 inches of her beautiful work showing!!!! The amount of work and with all of us that helped Mariah every step of the way work on it and complete her poster and it took several 'homework' sessions to finish it. It was very disappointing to see that this teacher wouldn't even display it like all the other student's posters had been. Seems this teacher really didn’t care that Mariah's HARD WORK needed to be displayed or seen by anyone, especially Mariah! Mariah worked hard on her West Virginia poster and she was PROUD of it and wanted everyone to SEE IT! This teacher didn't give Mariah any respect that she deserved for turning her monthly project in ON TIME and with following all the rules of the monthly project. Why?? Seeing that Mariah's poster was 'hidden' behind another students poster...none of the others were 'hidden' behind any...just Mariah's was. Being IN this teachers classroom was my time as a parent to see my daughter's class and to see HER POSTER displayed like all of them had been....absolutely upsetting! I can only imagine how it made my daughter FEEL! Thanks!
Where I was sitting in the back corner of the classroom, I was able to also see lots of other things in her classroom that maybe Miss Ridhur didn't realize that I was there to OBSERVE HER & HER CLASSROOM! When I couldn't find her monthly project poster displayed within the classroom anywhere, I started looking around the room for all sorts of other things and what I found was a list of all the students’ progress with reading their AR books. Accelerated Reader books that each student read they would get a sticker for every book they read. Looking at this list, I am reading all the students names, I read the list two or three times looking for Mariah's name. Mariah's name was nowhere to be found and absolutely was NOT on the classroom AR LIST!!
I was so sad and upset and my heart was broken because all along I thought I was doing right by my daughter by having her be FULLY INCLUDED in all GENERAL EDUCATION CLASSROOMS and yet, here I am seeing with my own eyes right here in her 5th grade homeroom classroom that she is actually being EXCLUDED and SEGREGATED within her General Education classroom because why?...because she has Down syndrome! Mariah had a teacher that didn't care!
As soon as my ONE HOUR CLASSROOM OBSERVATION was up...that was the only time Miss Ridhur looked up and at me and made any eye contact with me! She even spoke to me, saying, "Mrs. Harris, your observation time is up!" I smiled at her and I said, "Thank you" as I left her classroom.
The Principal had been near-by and on-hand during the entire hour observation, going between Miss Ridhur's classroom and the Science teacher, Mr. Allagood's classroom next door. He escorted me out of the class and down the stairs. It was in that stairwell that I let my favorite principal, Mr. Cashew know that I was not happy with that teacher and that it was very obvious she didn't have a clue about INCLUSION and that I didn't want my daughter to spend another day in her classroom and that Mariah needed to be in the Science teacher, Mr. Allagood's class starting Monday!
I will never forget the Parent-Teacher Conference I was finally able to have with Miss Ridhur and Mariah's other two teachers the very next day and how disgusted I was at her total lack or desire to be a GOOD TEACHER for my daughter! I was fed up with trying to make things work out with this teacher when it was very clear she had no desire to have a COLLABORATIVE & working partnership with me. My daughter was being treated LESS THAN, my daughter wasn't being praised to success. Mariah didn't get to have her homework displayed in the classroom like the other posters. Mariah wasn't being provided an opportunity to read and be tested on ACCELERATED READER BOOKS from the school library. Mariah wasn't being provided any opportunity to do grade level Math classwork while in class! Mariah was being EXCLUDED and it broke my heart to finally have answers to all the reasons why her new 5th Grade teacher wouldn't COMMUNICATE in the daily planner or respond to any of my emails or return my phone calls. This teacher was NOT A GOOD TEACHER.....for MY GIRL!!!!!
Inclusion so far was not happening in 5th Grade for Mariah!!! Miss Ridhur didn't know, maybe didn't have any training on inclusion, maybe she didn't 'volunteer' to have Mariah in her class, she had low expectations of her and she certainly didn't BELEIVE IN HER! She didn't care! Mariah IS a bright girl that can learn lots of wonderful things, but a teacher HAS TO CARE and a teacher has to have HIGH EXPECTATIONS for all students, not just the smart ones, but especially the students that struggle with their academics. Mariah will always struggle with her academics; she is going to learn what she needs to learn to be successful in life. If she has a teacher that BELIEVES in her and sees her POTENTIAL, then yes she will do well, of course any student would!
Mariah and I both had a very disappointing start to her 5th Grade school year. At the beginning of the new school year we were both excited and looking forward to having a great academic year. Now with putting in for a TEACHER CHANGE to start immediately on Monday with Mr. Allagood things have to be better! They just have to be, Mariah DESERVES a GOOD TEACHER that BELIEVES in her and will provide her with the right peer role models to sit next to her and work and assist her with Grade Level Classwork. More than anything Mariah and her mom deserve a GOOD TEACHER that is willing to return at least one phone call and TALK, COMMUNICATE & COLLABORATE....and yes...MAKE EYE CONTACT even! A GOOD TEACHER WOULD DO ALL THAT...
Putting in a REQUEST FOR A TEACHER CHANGE was the best thing that happened for Mariah's 5th Grade school year!
"Don't worry Mr. Allagood; you're going to do just fine!!"
*He was a tad nervous I'm sure!
**This is a true story ~ some teacher names have been changed and some names are Mariah's real teacher names.
I am a Special Education Advocate and Parent Trainer. A very proud parent to Mark and Mariah. Aunt Nana to many wonderful "Kiddo's" I hold close under my wing! Helping Parents Partner with Teachers. Helping with quality collaboration & communication so our Children with Unique Learning challenges are provided a Solid Education for their Future Success to Live Life Independently.
Friday, April 1, 2011
Getting started
This blog is being created out of a need to help educate those that work with students with Down syndrome in classrooms.
Parents & Teachers alike will appreciate the information and ideas provided.
It all starts with HIGH EXPECTATIONS and a desire to work together as a COLLABORATIVE TEAM. No one way of doing things is the only way, trying new ideas and ways of presentating information to students with Down syndrome is the focus.
When parents are interested in being equal partners with teachers in their Children's education, teachers need to do all they can to make sure frequent back and forth communication is established. When there is minimal communication between school & home a large piece of the whole educational experience for their Child is missing.
Let's first make sure we look at how everyone is working together to make sure the collaborative piece in place. Communication on a regular basis is so important. It makes everyone feel like they are part of the process and their input is valued.
In writing this NEW Blog ~ Down syndrome Inclusive Education, my desire is to show and tell real life experiences not only from my own journey with my daughter Mariah's inclusive education, but from others we have met along the way. Sharing real life experiences in working together with parents, teachers and school principals, staff and entire school districts! I hope to be able to encourage others to try new ways of doing things when it comes to educating our KIDDO'S with Down sydrome in inclusive classrooms.
I see this as a global need - to help show parents & teachers that working together on a daily basis is going to be the only way true collaborative inclusive education can take place. It's a two way street that takes time to develope and nuture so good communication is helping to enhance the daily educational experience of our Children! Communication & Collaboration between parents and teachers many times has been the missing piece in working together for the common goal and benefit our Kiddo's. Having good parent-teacher conferences that take place not only when things aren't going so well, but also at times when things are going great! Having opportunities to have face-to-face conversations needs to happen as often as possible! Phone calls can happen quick and cover a current topic of concern or issue. With todays ease of technology, emails work wonders with keeping current with daily classroom situations and units of study going on, so things can be carried over from school to home. Written notes in planners or spiral notebooks is quick and easy to jot down basic information so both parents and teachers are kept in the loop of what to expect, homework assignments and daily updates. Whatever the means of daily communication...it needs to take place on a regular and consistant basis.
The basis for starting this blog has come out of working with many families in teaching them how to be effective & confident advocates for their Children when they are faced with creating and working together with school Individual Education Plan(IEP)Teams. For the most part, parents send their children to school to be taugh how to read and write and do math, to get a good education and for some, to be able to go on to higher education so in the future they can get a good job and be successful in whatever they want and dream for their future. Communication between home & school needs to be happening on a regular basis with information that keeps parents and teachers up to date with what is happening at home and in school.
Attending IEP meetings with many families with all sorts of different unique learning needs has shown me too many times that there seems to be two different 'sides' to those IEP teams...the parents of course and those that work for the school system. Parents are nervous at these meetings and don't always really know the whole IEP process or what to expect during some of their IEP meetings. Sometimes with over 10 and up to 20 SCHOOL EMPLOYEES attending those intense IEP meetings for their Child! (*I have never understood why SO MANY SCHOOL PEOPLE get invited to our Kiddo's meetings! So intimidating!!) On the other hand the school side absolutely know what is going to go on and happen at IEP meetings and they absolutely know what they want to accomplish by the end of it!! It has been my experience that some school people have a really bad attitude about including our students with Down syndrome into the General education classrooms and programs...still today and this is 2011! Seems there is the one side trying to just make sure the Child/Student has good educational goals written in the IEP document and seems the other side always wants to say, "well we don't see that happening at school."...so they make goals that the Child/Student is ALREADY DOING at home and can do! With goals that are many times almost nothing goals...parents feel things will go at a snails pace in teaching their Child and leave the IEP table feeling let down with so-so expectations from the school side in educating their Children.
HIGHER EXPECTATIONS and HIGHER STANDARDS need to be happening more today!
Segregation is still alive and well with our students with Down syndrome and most other Special Needs students. The mind-set to educate our students in seperate and segregated classroom is still what most 'good teachers' and administrators still believe to be the best way to educated many of our Special Needs students. With TEACHER MERIT PAY now becoming the norm, it is only making INCLUSIVE EDUCATION even harder for our UNIQUE LEARNERS to be educated in GENERAL EDUCATION CLASSROOMS! We have to find a way to make this work for everyone! Especially for the student!
It doesn't really matter what the unique learning challenges, teachers and staff are working harder to educate all students and then to have one or several students in their classrooms today that requires more one-on-one attention or assistance, it does make teaching more DIVERSIFIED. Teachers can not teach today with the mind-set that one size fits all anymore. A new attitude towards students with significant cognitive disabilities being educated alongside classroom peers without disabilities IS the new norm and a federal right.
Below is the basis for my wanting to create this NEW Blog for you:
Schools who let one criterion, such as a specific disability, automatically
determine the placement are likely to be held in violation of federal law.
~ Supreme Court - Board of Education v. Rowley ~
"Inclusion is a right, not a special privilege for a select few".
~ Federal Court - Oberti v. Board of Education ~
"Separate educational facilities are inherently unequal"
~ Supreme Court - Brown v. Board of Education ~
All children with disabilities are to be educated to
the "maximum extent" with children who do not have disabilities.
~ Federal Law I.D.E.A. Sec. 612.5 (A) ~
Elementary & Secondary Education - What is Inclusion?
Elementary & Secondary Education - Tips for Teaching Students with Down syndrome
WELCOME to my new blog! Become a follower and share with others! Please comment on my posts and let's make this an interactive COLLABORATIVE blog for all of us to benefit from!
Nancy Linley-Harris
nancy.harris@dsadvocate.com
DS Advocate
www.ds-advocate.com
Parents & Teachers alike will appreciate the information and ideas provided.
It all starts with HIGH EXPECTATIONS and a desire to work together as a COLLABORATIVE TEAM. No one way of doing things is the only way, trying new ideas and ways of presentating information to students with Down syndrome is the focus.
When parents are interested in being equal partners with teachers in their Children's education, teachers need to do all they can to make sure frequent back and forth communication is established. When there is minimal communication between school & home a large piece of the whole educational experience for their Child is missing.
Let's first make sure we look at how everyone is working together to make sure the collaborative piece in place. Communication on a regular basis is so important. It makes everyone feel like they are part of the process and their input is valued.
In writing this NEW Blog ~ Down syndrome Inclusive Education, my desire is to show and tell real life experiences not only from my own journey with my daughter Mariah's inclusive education, but from others we have met along the way. Sharing real life experiences in working together with parents, teachers and school principals, staff and entire school districts! I hope to be able to encourage others to try new ways of doing things when it comes to educating our KIDDO'S with Down sydrome in inclusive classrooms.
I see this as a global need - to help show parents & teachers that working together on a daily basis is going to be the only way true collaborative inclusive education can take place. It's a two way street that takes time to develope and nuture so good communication is helping to enhance the daily educational experience of our Children! Communication & Collaboration between parents and teachers many times has been the missing piece in working together for the common goal and benefit our Kiddo's. Having good parent-teacher conferences that take place not only when things aren't going so well, but also at times when things are going great! Having opportunities to have face-to-face conversations needs to happen as often as possible! Phone calls can happen quick and cover a current topic of concern or issue. With todays ease of technology, emails work wonders with keeping current with daily classroom situations and units of study going on, so things can be carried over from school to home. Written notes in planners or spiral notebooks is quick and easy to jot down basic information so both parents and teachers are kept in the loop of what to expect, homework assignments and daily updates. Whatever the means of daily communication...it needs to take place on a regular and consistant basis.
The basis for starting this blog has come out of working with many families in teaching them how to be effective & confident advocates for their Children when they are faced with creating and working together with school Individual Education Plan(IEP)Teams. For the most part, parents send their children to school to be taugh how to read and write and do math, to get a good education and for some, to be able to go on to higher education so in the future they can get a good job and be successful in whatever they want and dream for their future. Communication between home & school needs to be happening on a regular basis with information that keeps parents and teachers up to date with what is happening at home and in school.
Attending IEP meetings with many families with all sorts of different unique learning needs has shown me too many times that there seems to be two different 'sides' to those IEP teams...the parents of course and those that work for the school system. Parents are nervous at these meetings and don't always really know the whole IEP process or what to expect during some of their IEP meetings. Sometimes with over 10 and up to 20 SCHOOL EMPLOYEES attending those intense IEP meetings for their Child! (*I have never understood why SO MANY SCHOOL PEOPLE get invited to our Kiddo's meetings! So intimidating!!) On the other hand the school side absolutely know what is going to go on and happen at IEP meetings and they absolutely know what they want to accomplish by the end of it!! It has been my experience that some school people have a really bad attitude about including our students with Down syndrome into the General education classrooms and programs...still today and this is 2011! Seems there is the one side trying to just make sure the Child/Student has good educational goals written in the IEP document and seems the other side always wants to say, "well we don't see that happening at school."...so they make goals that the Child/Student is ALREADY DOING at home and can do! With goals that are many times almost nothing goals...parents feel things will go at a snails pace in teaching their Child and leave the IEP table feeling let down with so-so expectations from the school side in educating their Children.
HIGHER EXPECTATIONS and HIGHER STANDARDS need to be happening more today!
Segregation is still alive and well with our students with Down syndrome and most other Special Needs students. The mind-set to educate our students in seperate and segregated classroom is still what most 'good teachers' and administrators still believe to be the best way to educated many of our Special Needs students. With TEACHER MERIT PAY now becoming the norm, it is only making INCLUSIVE EDUCATION even harder for our UNIQUE LEARNERS to be educated in GENERAL EDUCATION CLASSROOMS! We have to find a way to make this work for everyone! Especially for the student!
It doesn't really matter what the unique learning challenges, teachers and staff are working harder to educate all students and then to have one or several students in their classrooms today that requires more one-on-one attention or assistance, it does make teaching more DIVERSIFIED. Teachers can not teach today with the mind-set that one size fits all anymore. A new attitude towards students with significant cognitive disabilities being educated alongside classroom peers without disabilities IS the new norm and a federal right.
Below is the basis for my wanting to create this NEW Blog for you:
Schools who let one criterion, such as a specific disability, automatically
determine the placement are likely to be held in violation of federal law.
~ Supreme Court - Board of Education v. Rowley ~
"Inclusion is a right, not a special privilege for a select few".
~ Federal Court - Oberti v. Board of Education ~
"Separate educational facilities are inherently unequal"
~ Supreme Court - Brown v. Board of Education ~
All children with disabilities are to be educated to
the "maximum extent" with children who do not have disabilities.
~ Federal Law I.D.E.A. Sec. 612.5 (A) ~
Elementary & Secondary Education - What is Inclusion?
Elementary & Secondary Education - Tips for Teaching Students with Down syndrome
WELCOME to my new blog! Become a follower and share with others! Please comment on my posts and let's make this an interactive COLLABORATIVE blog for all of us to benefit from!
Nancy Linley-Harris
nancy.harris@dsadvocate.com
DS Advocate
www.ds-advocate.com
I am a Special Education Advocate and Parent Trainer. A very proud parent to Mark and Mariah. Aunt Nana to many wonderful "Kiddo's" I hold close under my wing! Helping Parents Partner with Teachers. Helping with quality collaboration & communication so our Children with Unique Learning challenges are provided a Solid Education for their Future Success to Live Life Independently.
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I am a Special Education Advocate and Parent Trainer. A very proud parent to Mark and Mariah. Aunt Nana to many wonderful "Kiddo's" I hold close under my wing! Helping Parents Partner with Teachers. Helping with quality collaboration & communication so our Children with Unique Learning challenges are provided a Solid Education for their Future Success to Live Life Independently.
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